My sister fumed because I wore a ‘better’ dress than her to her wedding (2024)

A WOMAN has revealed that her sister who recently got married is fuming at her after she wore a ‘better’ dress to the wedding.

The guest explained that her younger sister was not impressed in the slightest with her wedding guest dress when she said I Do.

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The 28-year-old woman wore a figure-hugging black frock, with her toned legs on show.

The bodycon dress, which featured a busty display as well as a sheer mesh panelling around the waist, also came with a thigh-high split.

Posting on Reddit, the community sharing platform, on a page named Weddingshaming, the woman opened up about the dress ordeal.

The young woman wrote: “Bride gets mad at me for wearing a “better dress” even though she approved of it the day before.”

The red-haired woman, who was invited as a guest to the wedding, then expressed: “The day before her wedding I was showing her the dress I was gonna wear to the wedding and she said it was gorgeous.

“The dress was this little black dress with a little bit of sparkles and a corset.

“When I arrived to the reception she was a little stunned and came up to me saying something in the lines of “oh wow I didn’t know you were actually gonna wear it” and then just laughed.

“But I could see by her face that she had a problem with it.”

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According to the young woman, who had paired the dress with a pair of black heels and sparkly jewellery, she could sense that the sister was slightly off towards her - and even fellow attendees of the wedding got involved.

She continued: “All throughout the wedding I saw her giving me these strange a** looks.

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“And once during the wedding I saw her talking to some people and then at one point they all just stared at me and gave me a nasty a** look.”

Unfortunately for the fashionista, who then sought advice from fellow Redditors, her 23-year-old sister ''hasn’t really been the same'' to her since tying the knot with her partner.

She concluded: “She hasn’t really been the same to me ever since. I honestly don’t think I did anything wrong and think she was overreacting especially since she literally approved of the dress so I don’t know why she changed her mind so fast.”

Trashy for a wedding

Reddit user

But although the woman did indeed look fabulous, and she didn’t anything was wrong with her frock, hundreds of social media users disagreed with the wedding attire.

Many raced to slam the ''inappropriate'' dress choice - and some even called it "trashy".

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One person said: ''I see why the bride thought you were kidding. This is a great club dress but a terrible wedding guest dress.'

Another added: “That would look amazing at a New Year’s party. Not appropriate for a wedding.”

A third commented: “Trashy for a wedding.”

Whilst someone else agreed: “I think that the dress looks great on you. I don't know if it is really wedding appropriate. That's a LOT of leg for a wedding.”

I honestly don’t think I did anything wrong and think she was overreacting

Reddit user

Not only this, but another woman expressed: “I would never have worn something like this to a wedding, not even to my own.

“With this big chunk of "missing" fabric I also say it's too much.

“For me the combo of: free shoulders/no straps, mesh in "corset look" and this high and extremely wide slit it's just too much.”

Meanwhile, one user claimed: ''No one will EVER be upstaged by the bride because everyone knows who the bride is and she will remain the centre of attention.

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FAQs

Is there anything you shouldn't wear to a wedding? ›

Denim is mostly going to be a no-go unless you're attending a Western-themed wedding. Shorts are seldom going to be acceptable, save for the case of destination weddings with very, very relaxed dress codes. And speaking of pants, pantsuits are often a great alternative to dresses.

Can you over dress at a wedding? ›

It's better to be overdressed than underdressed, but find a happy medium that won't have you mistaken for the groom. Don't Match the Bridal Party. As a guest, you don't want to blend in with the wedding party (or even mimic it).

What is an inappropriate dress for a wedding guest? ›

It doesn't matter if the dress code requests "casual" attire, jeans, T-shirts, shorts, flip-flops, and sneakers are never appropriate to wear as a wedding guest.

What should a 60 year old woman wear to a wedding? ›

Fit-and-flare Wedding Guest Dresses For Women Over 60

Fit-and-flare dresses whether knee-length or longer are chic and flattering. It has a defined waistline and fits closer to the body but is not too tight which makes it uncomfortable. This forgiving silhouette fits every body type.

Is it okay to wear a sparkly dress to a wedding? ›

You don't have to go full bedazzled and sequined, but definitely wear a nice co*cktail dress and a strappier sandal heel. (Typically 7 p.m. or later.) I really encourage people to go long. If you aren't going to wear a long dress for a black tie, that's fine, but do make sure it's a really dressy co*cktail dress.

Can I have bare legs at a wedding? ›

I have advised readers that while bare legs are fine even at the most formal events, hosiery also is perfectly acceptable as long as it's skin tone and sheer. I've just returned from a wedding where I wore my new bargain ($10!) black sequined mini and consignment store jeweled black shoes (also $10).

Are there Colours you shouldn't wear to a wedding? ›

Ivory, Or Anything Close To White

Creams, beiges, and any light neutrals can easily be mistaken for a white, so it's probably a good idea to steer clear.

Why can't you wear red to a wedding? ›

Turns out, wearing red to a wedding means to some that “you've slept with the groom.” “Old Wives' Tale, but yeah,” Mitchell explained. However, both wedding planners agreed on a more modern reason for not wearing red: It could be seen as a way to grab the attention away from the bride.

What to avoid in wedding dress? ›

10 Mistakes to Avoid When Choosing a Wedding Dress
  • Bringing a large entourage. ...
  • Trying On Too Many Dresses. ...
  • Deciding in advance on a style of gown. ...
  • Demanding the Wrong Size. ...
  • Expecting it to fit without alterations. ...
  • Looking at a dress-in-a-bag. ...
  • Buying online. ...
  • Not choosing your store carefully.

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